sometimes i wish i could/would allocate more time to this sort of meaningful posts..
the topic for today is Relationships =)

the durability of teenage relationships seems to be very low. unfortunately as any information on teenage relationships in the past, whether they existed or not, are not available, no comparision can be made or things like "teenagers nowadays are such lousy lovers" or "if only my boyfriend/girlfriend came from 50 years back" can't be said. all that can be said now is an observation of current relationships and their relation to this generation of mindsets pitted against ideals/fairytales.

inspiration for this post came from a blog of my friend's friend =) (i wish it was more complicated too =) )
this girl, who shall henceforth be referred to as Hilary, celebrates monthly anniversaries with her boyfriend. now this brings up 1 point, whether appropriate or not, this is just my opinion. now that we're at it , "I hereby announce that these posts are made with reference to real life situations but with only my own personal opinions of them. These are not accusatorary/gossip-try/implicative nor slandering posts. And are only for my personal analysis."

alright back on track. The point is that, teenagers are getting increasingly short-visioned. The implementation of a monthly anniversary could indicate 1) desperation 2) need for an event to get together 3)desperation 4) disbelief of happy days everyday 5) desperation 6) lack of faith

-break-

i'm back after yet another day of shopping at art friend =) even though i didn't mention this yesterday, what i experienced today made it relevant. But before that, a great word of awe from Professor Charles who is an architecture student "Why does it say 'Art Friend?!' I'm not a friend of art." 2 girls of our juniors in year 2 burst out giggling at that =) When i was at level 1 of Bras Basha tho.. When i was going up the escalator, i thought, how wonderful it would be if she would marry me. now because countless days have passed sinced i last touched this post, what i orignally wanted to say may have gone astray AGAIN..... ahh~_~ now, I, who has not her as a girlfriend, would do anything for her. But what would happen if i did? Would it slowly degrade because i didn't do a proper analysis of the person before due a an act of desperation? My belief is that relationships borne of these situations would be short due to it's brittle-ness to hardships and each other.

But before that, the celebration of monthly anniversaries goes/does not go against the concept of a fairy tale ending. 1) It goes against a fairytale ending because it's not "happily ever after" but "happily as long as we can" 2) It is a fairytale ending because they celebrate that they are together.

Now Hilary, has gotten mad at her boyfriend for prioritizing a badmiton game(non-competitive) above the anniversary. A relationship could be ruined by an overemphasis on events. It's like trying to celebrate a birthday but your other half has an important project submission the next day and is rushing work. Now in a rare case the other half would be tolerant and would spare some time, but in most cases he/she would be irritated and may some unintended things. Now it's up to the initiation party on how to take the response. She/he may realise the other half's state of mind and forgive him/her.

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Drats.

Well i've mostly forgotten what i've been wanting to say to i'll just stop here =\

But as a last note for myself =)
Dear diary,
I dreamt that she was in a white wedding dress in front of a pure white church on a green hill.. haa~ even tho i dreamt this during AP lecture when i accidentally fell asleep=_=" but i received a warm feeling from this dream.. near the location of my heart.. could this mean that i actually love her?

ken..
sgins off =)

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